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You are tired, but your body will not settle. Your muscles feel tight, your mind keeps going, and the harder you try to sleep, the further away it seems.

In short: gentle, slow movement, a body scan and long exhales may help you settle before sleep. They are not a cure for insomnia, but they can be a calming part of an evening routine.

Why the body struggles to switch off

Stress and worry keep the body alert, which can make it harder to fall asleep. Johns Hopkins Medicine notes that stress-relief techniques such as breathing exercises and progressive muscle relaxation can help you relax before bed, and may make it easier to fall asleep. The NHS likewise suggests relaxing activities before bed and a regular sleep routine.

It is worth being honest about the evidence. The US National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health (NCCIH) says relaxation techniques may help some people with sleep, but the research on relaxation alone for insomnia is small and of low quality. For ongoing insomnia, cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) is generally the first-line recommendation. Think of these exercises as a gentle way to wind down, not a treatment. See our general guide to somatic exercises if you are new to the idea.

1. Long exhale breathing

  1. Lie on your back or on your side, whichever is comfortable.
  2. Breathe in gently through your nose, letting your belly rise.
  3. Breathe out slowly through your mouth or nose, longer than the inhale.
  4. Repeat for two to five minutes. If counting helps, try in for 4 and out for 6. The NHS breathing exercise suggests inhaling for five and exhaling for seven, so find what is easy for you.

2. Body scan

  1. Lie comfortably with your eyes closed or softly open.
  2. Start at your feet. Notice how they feel, without trying to change anything.
  3. Slowly move your attention up through your legs, hips, belly, chest, hands, arms, shoulders, neck, jaw and face.
  4. If your mind wanders, gently bring it back to the place you left off.

Johns Hopkins describes a body scan as a way to focus on the sensations in different parts of the body. It takes 5 to 15 minutes.

3. Progressive muscle relaxation

  1. Starting with your feet, tense the muscles gently for about five seconds. Do not strain.
  2. Release them completely and notice the difference for 10 to 20 seconds.
  3. Move up to your calves, thighs, belly, hands, arms, shoulders and face.
  4. Skip any area where tensing causes pain, or if you have an injury or cramping.

For more, see progressive muscle relaxation.

4. Gentle movements in bed

  1. Lie on your back with your knees bent. Let your knees slowly fall to one side, then the other.
  2. Slowly tilt your pelvis, flattening and releasing your lower back, a few times.
  3. Give yourself a gentle self-hug, then let your arms rest by your sides.

5. Self-holding

  1. Place one hand on your chest and the other on your belly.
  2. Feel the warmth of your hands and the rise and fall of your breath.
  3. Stay for a few minutes, letting each exhale be a little softer.

What you might notice: a heavier body, slower breath, or your mind wandering a lot, which is normal. Some people drift off. Others notice no change at first. How to stop: open your eyes, wriggle your fingers and toes, and breathe normally. If you feel unsettled, a few slow breaths or sitting up and looking around the room can help.

A short evening routine

  1. Dim the lights and put screens away about an hour before bed.
  2. Do five to ten minutes of gentle movement, such as the pelvic tilts and knee drops above.
  3. Lie down and take a few minutes of long-exhale breathing.
  4. Finish with a body scan, then let sleep come in its own time.

Our 10-minute somatic wind-down puts a routine together. For more on relaxing before sleep, see relaxation for sleep.

What else supports sleep

The NHS suggests keeping a regular sleep pattern, making your bedroom restful (dark, quiet and not too warm), limiting caffeine and alcohol in the evening, and avoiding screens and large meals close to bedtime. If you cannot sleep after about 20 minutes, getting up and doing something quiet in low light can help.

If you have trouble sleeping for weeks, or you snore heavily, stop breathing in your sleep or feel very tired during the day, please speak with a doctor. These can be signs of conditions that need proper assessment. Wellness exercises can sit alongside professional care, not replace it. If sleep worries are linked to stress, you might find nervous system regulation for sleep useful. For a morning counterpart, try the morning somatic routine.

Practise gently

These practices are gentle, but bodies respond differently. Go at your own pace, pause whenever you want to, and stop if anything feels too intense. If you live with a medical or mental-health condition, are pregnant, or are recovering from injury, check with a health professional first. This article is wellness education, not medical advice.

Frequently asked questions

Many people find that releasing physical tension before bed helps them settle. They work best as part of a regular routine.

Yes, most can be done in bed. Keep movements slow and the lights low.

This guide explains the exercises; the before-bed page is a ready-made 10-minute guided wind-down.